What Recovery Teaches You About Purpose
Recovery from cancer is not a straight line. But for Leigh, there were moments of profound clarity along the way.
The turning point came when her blood markers showed the cancer was under control. Her oncologist told her to book a holiday. Slowly, cautiously, she began to feel physically stronger, and about three months after her final chemotherapy cycle she dared, for the first time, to believe in a future.
In those early months she set herself close, achievable targets. Make it to her son Oliver’s birthday. Then Christmas. Then New Year. Then her own birthday. Then a trip to her beloved South Africa. The horizon expanded gradually as confidence returned. Where once she had planned in decades, she now plans a year at a time, and she has found, unexpectedly, that there is a great deal of freedom in that.
The headspace that recovery brought with it also gave her something she hadn’t anticipated: the clarity to think differently about the business. Rebuilding, not just personally but strategically, became its own source of purpose. Out of the ashes, as Leigh puts it, something new is taking shape. That clarity was grounded, throughout everything, by the people who held her up. Her inner circle never faltered.
Her two sons, Connor and Oliver, and her three dogs were her constants, their love solid and unwavering. Her father Ray, whose Yorkshire grit is the stuff of family legend, and his wife Anna, who carried the mantle at Riverside in Leigh’s absence, provided a foundation she could always rely on. Her best friends Catriona Valentine and Paul Jones, who recently married, gave her a goal she was determined to be present for. She made it, and she wants the world to know: congratulations, her loves.
Then there is Jo Witt, Leigh’s non-biological sister and a band 7 senior sister and urgent care practitioner nurse with over 25 years NHS experience, who proved indispensable in navigating the administrative complexities of treatment. Where the system created delays and obstacles, Jo carved through them, enabling the clinical teams to do what they do best. Leigh is in no doubt: without Jo’s input and support, her journey through the treatment process would have been significantly harder. And Simona Brlogar, another non-biological sister, provided love and support from afar, maintaining a loyal, tenacious, and solid presence throughout.
Leigh also wants to name, with enormous gratitude, the wider circle of women who showed up for her, many of whom she counts amongst her closest friends: Karen Robertshaw, Debi Lumley Edwards, Paula Hunter, Elizabeth Anna Farrimond, Rebecca Hamer, Rebecca Jeffery, Steph Dylan, Emma Tappin, Emma Bussey, Lucy Taylor, Jo Cribbin, Hayley Reeves-Moore, Keryn Reeves-Moore, Lesley Hammam and many more. You know who you are.
And to the clinical team at Lingen Davies, especially Rhod, her heartfelt thanks.